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I sure hope she does, and today will be a day of either much joy, or much disappointment for her family, and also many Malaysian’s who have been keeping their eyes peeled and trying to look for her.

6 days ago, on the 23rd of January 2008, 50 bomohs unanimously agreed that Sharlinie was alive and will return in a week. I mean, 50 bomohs cannot go wrong, can they?

The bomohs were unanimous in saying that Sharlinie, who was reported missing on Jan 9, was alive and would be found within a week - Paragraph 5, The Star, Jan 23

In the old testament, if a prophet makes a prophecy and it doesn’t come true, he is was to die. That is how seriously God takes ’speaking in His name’. (deut 18:20-22)

If sharlinie does not come home tomorrow, what becomes of the 50 bomohs’ predictions?
Will the government take action against them?
Will they refund their hefty fees to the family?
Most of all, what will they say that will comfort Sharlinie’s sorrowing family? I can’t imagine what they would say.

I’m sorry for being so negative, I don’t blame her family for calling the bomohs, even though I neither believe in bomohs nor the powers they summon for their ‘revelations’, but I’d feel very angry if these folks are taking this family for a ride.

If the bomohs claim that their revelation was indeed genuine and that they didn’t conjure it up on their own, may I humbly ask all to question the ‘powers’ that they consult, who has obviously lied to them? My bible says,

Ye are of the devil, as your father, and ye desire to the lusts of your father. He was a murderer from the beginning, and has not stood in the truth, because there is no truth in him.When he speaks falsehood, he speaks of what is his own; for he is a liar and its father. - John 8:44

Whether the bomoh’s are right or not, I just hope Sharlinie comes home soon. No child or family should go through this.

Here’s what the newspapers have been reporting:

Wed, Jan 23, 2008

Sharlinie alive and will be found, predicts bomohs
The home of five-year-old Sharlinie Mohd Nashar, who has been missing for two weeks, was abuzz with activity Tuesday with the family having invited about 50 bomohs and their followers to perform prayers and conduct rituals.

Thu, Jan 24, 2008

Sharlinie may look different now, say cops
This possibility was based on other missing children who were later found, Petaling Jaya OCPD Asst Comm Arjunaidi Mohamad told reporters.

Fri, Jan 25, 2008

Cops cautious about info from bomohs
While the police welcome the help of bomohs to search for missing girl Sharlinie Mohd Nashar, they are cautious about information obtained via supernatural ways

Sat, Jan 26, 2008

Public warned against SMS rumours
The public was once again reminded that action could be taken against those who spread false SMSes that could bring about adverse effects, such as the latest one involving missing girl Sharlinie Mohd Nashar.

Sun, Jan 27, 2008

House search for Sharlinie extends beyond 5km radius
Police have extended their house-to-house search for missing five-year-old Sharlinie Mohd Nashar beyond the 5km radius

Mon, Jan 28, 2008

Tighter security at entry and exit points
Johor police have tightened security at all 17 entry and exit points in the state in search of five-year-old Sharlinie Mohd Nashar

Tue, Jan 29, 2008

- No news -

I asked this question to a few of the women in church:

“Which would be worse, dying young as a virgin or living the rest of your days as a virgin?”

Most of the replies would be dying young as a virgin.

Then I changed the question a little,

“What would be a greater sacrifice for you, dying young as a virgin or living the rest of your days as a virgin?”

Most replied the latter, that to live a virgin, would be a greater sacrifice.

I’m not drawing any conclusions on this, I just get some insight, and seems that:

Virginity, the prized possesion, which few want to keep for the rest of their lives.

I really like what Sharon Raju said,

“The second (living a virgin) is sacrifice, the first (dying a virgin) is tragic”.

What about you, any thoughts?

Decided to try to answer these after seeing it on Pei Ling’s blog

1. What did you do in 2007 that you’d never done before?
Eat ice-cream in 3 degree Celsius winter. Carry a baby. Change a diaper.
2. Did you keep your new year’s resolutions, and will you make more for next year?
No. Yes.
3. Did anyone close to you give birth?
My wife!
4. Did anyone close to you die?
No.

5. What countries did you visit?
Australia, again.

6. What would you like to have in 2008 that you lacked in 2007?
Self-control.

8. What was your biggest achievement of the year?
Giving a tract and making friends with a bloke who knocked my car.

Sharing the gospel with a good friend.

9. What was your biggest failure?
Not loving Chin Ai enough.

10. Did you suffer illness or injury?
“Oh, the wretched man that I am!…”

11. What was the best thing you bought?
Do I have to choose one?
A new handphone. No not that one, the other one. ;-). Argh, see question 6 and 10.

12. Whose behavior merited celebration?
Chin Ai. Her patience and love in caring for Titus is something is a new trait I see and appreciate in her. Also her love and zeal for the Lord in sharing the gospel. I love her more each year!

13. Whose behavior made you appalled and depressed?
See Question 10.

14. Where did most of your money go?
My house. a good 15K of moolah.

15. What did you get really, really, really excited about?
Seeing Chin Ai after her delivery, then seeing my darling baby Titus.

16. What song will always remind you of 2007?
“I can be your friend” - Vegetales. Its the most played song in my house these days…

17. Compared to this time last year, are you: a) happier or sadder? b) thinner or fatter? c) richer or poorer?
a) Happier (b)Fatter (c) i don’t know, never counted.

18. What do you wish you’d done more of?
share the gospel

19. What do you wish you’d done less of?
Thinking of myself.

20. How did you spend Christmas?
With family, then with chee hao, pei ling, calvin, max, chin liang, then dinner at unc Sai Eng’s. Fab, man, fab.

21. Did you fall in love in 2007?
More in love with person I fell in love with 10 years ago.

22. What was your favorite TV program?
Dr. house, for a few months. I think I watched less than a total of 20 hours of TV last year.

23. Do you hate anyone now that you didn’t hate this time last year?
I can’t bring myself to hate anyone these days. Not after what Jesus Christ has done for the world.

24. What was the best book you read?
The bible. Duh!

25. What was your greatest musical discovery?
Its influence and deception.

26. What did you want and get?
The Lord’s providence to sustain my family every month.

27. What did you want and not get?
Higher degree of personal holiness.

28. What was your favorite film this year?
Transformers. Its easy to choose when you only watched a total of 4 movies a year. haha…

29. What did you do on your birthday and how old were you?
I can’t remember. Maybe coz I’m 30.

30. What one thing would have made your year immeasurably more satisfying?
If a family member got saved.

31. How would you describe your personal fashion concept in 2007?
I need bigger clothes?

32. What kept you sane?
Chin Ai’s love. The Lord’s grace.

33. Which celebrity/public figure did you fancy the most?
None.

34. What political issue stirred you the most?
The use of ISA on the hindraf leaders. What gives, man?!!

35. Who did you miss?
Cheng Tze.

36. Who was the best new person you met?
Titus Anand Gunaseelan. Spent a lot of time with him, he teaches me something new every day. Wonderful bloke, i tell you.

37. Tell us a valuable life lesson you learned in 2007.
Humility. When you know you can win an argument, choose to lose. Feel the pain of losing. Swallow your pride.
“Consider others better than yourself”
“The Lord resists the proud, but gives grace to the humble.”

I usually struggle to find anything to quote Brian McLaren on, but I finally found one that I can almost agree with him on:

To our most bitter opponents we say: “Throw us in jail and we will still love you. Bomb our houses and threaten our children and we will still love you. Beat us and leave us half dead, and we will still love you. But be ye assured that we will wear you down by our capacity to suffer. One day we shall so appeal to your heart and conscience that we shall win you in the process, and our victory will be a double victory.”

Brian d McLaren, 2007

Hardly emergent at all, as this was exactly the attitude of godliest Christians I know, who in the face of much injustice, suffering and persecution, yet not reviling nor rebelling. There are numerous accounts of such that have been immortalized in Fox’s Book of Martyrs, but I find myself agreeing with the spirit Brian has, in penning (or typing) those words.

Yes, although the context of his statement was to those who oppose the emergent church (EC), I’d like to think of it on a broader scope, of our place as Christians in society, in the country, in our families.

The idea of the suffering church is hardly what people would call Christians today, let alone Malaysia. Religious tolerance, democracy, freedom of speech (limited as it may be), human rights and society’s pursuit of modernism have given Christians a comfortable life, so comfortable, (i’d suggest) a sense of boldness and security never before enjoyed by the christian church.

If christians are unjustly treated or persecuted, they complain bitterly and plea to human rights, freedom of religion, and fight, struggle and squeal. What? Do we really expect to be treated fairly when the Lord Jesus Himself tells us

If the world hateh you, ye know that it hath hateth me first before it hateh you. If ye were of the world, the world would love its own: but because ye are not of the world, but I chose you out of the world, therefore the world hateth you. John 15:18-19

Don’t you think the church today is afraid of being hated by the world? Why? I’ll suggest only two reasons:

1. The cost is to high: We have jobs, houses and cars, we need money sustain these lifestyles, we don’t dare imagine if these were taken away from us. We dare not imagine the consequence of being thrown out of the home and into the streets. Oh, the cost not being able to lay my head on my chiropractor-endorsed pillow tonight. And what about the prospect of waiting hours in a general hospital to get medical care and be treated like everyone else, ah, we’d rather go to the private hospital and pay by the thousands to be treated like a VIP and as we walk out, glance around to see who’s noticed our wealth. We cannot imagine if our friends shun us and stop calling us and inviting us to their weddings and birthday parties. Never mind that the Lord said “I will never leave you nor forsake you”, but oh, may it never be that we should be considered scum of the earth!

2. We love the world: Let’s face it. We love what the world has to offer: we want to have that nice black dress, we want to be able to have coffee in Starbucks, we want to able to walk into a boutique and not be looked at with scorn by the staff, we want to attend our friends’ weddings and be ‘on par’ with the rest of society, we want to be able to whip out that cool mobile phone in front of our friends. We want that promotion, we want to be able give out an impressive business card. We love the entertainment the world has, reality TV, singing competitions, video games, movies, travel, hobbies. We love the ‘feel good’ factor when we are treated well and with respect. We love the words “what a nice church building you have!”. We just love this world.

Lets not live in delusion, thinking all is hunky-dory for the christian, the Word of God makes it clear:

because to you it has been granted in the behalf of Christ, not only to believe on him, but also to suffer for Him Php 1:29

be not ashamed of the testimony of our Lord, nor of me his prisoner: but suffer hardship with the gospel according to the power of God - 2Tim1:8

These things have I spoken unto you, that in me ye may have peace. In the world ye have tribulation: but be of good cheer, I have overcome the world - John 16:33

Let us not take the Lord’s grace for granted. I’m always impressed by this statement by Ignatius when at his martydom:

“Now I begin to be a disciple. I care for nothing, of visible or invisible things, so that I may but win Christ. Let fire and the cross, let the companies of wild beasts, let breaking of bones and tearing of limbs, let the grinding of the whole body, and all the malice of the devil, come upon me; be it so, only may I win Christ Jesus!”

As the new year comes, let us ask ourselves, in what way can we suffer, rather than prosper, be selfless, rather than selfish. Let us be like Moses, who “accounted the reproach of Christ greater riches than the treasures of Egypt…” (Heb 11:26)

When we are willing to suffer, take courage, the Lord is not blind to it:

And shall not God avenge his elect, which cry to Him day and night, and He is longsuffering over them? Luk 18:7

… and if children, then heirs; heirs of God, and jointheirs with Christ, if so be that we suffer with him , that we may be also glorified with him. For I reckon that the sufferings of this present time are not worthy to be compared with the glory which shall be revealed to usward - Rom 8:17-18

…because Christ also suffered for you, leaving you an example, that ye should follow his steps, who did no sin, neither was guile found in his mouth, who when he was reviled, reviled not again, when he suffered, threatened not, but committed himself to Him that judgeth righteously… - 1Pet2:22

Fear not the things which thou are about to suffer: behold the devil is about to cast some of you into prison, that ye may be tried, … Be thou faithful unto death, and I will give you the crown of life - Rev 2:10

I’d like to leave you with an excerpt from the Fox’s book of Martyrs. It isn’t the worst of persecutions, but one that has taught me the meaning of putting Christ above even your own wife.

Timothy, a deacon of Mauritania, and Maura his wife, had not been united together by the bands of wedlock above three weeks, when they were separated from each other by the persecution. Timothy, being apprehended, as a Christian, was carried before Arrianus, the governor of Thebais, who, knowing that he had the keeping of the Holy Scriptures, commanded him to deliver them up to be burnt; to which he answered, “Had I children, I would sooner deliver them up to be sacrificed, than part with the Word of God.” The governor being much incensed at this reply, ordered his eyes to be put out, with red-hot irons, saying, “The books shall at least be useless to you, for you shall not see to read them.” His patience under the operation was so great that the governor grew more exasperated; he, therefore, in order, if possible, to overcome his fortitude, ordered him to be hung up by the feet, with a weight tied about his neck, and a gag in his mouth. In this state, Maura his wife, tenderly urged him for her sake to recant; but, when the gag was taken out of his mouth, instead of consenting to his wife’s entreaties, he greatly blamed her mistaken love, and declared his resolution of dying for the faith. The consequence was, that Maura resolved to imitate his courage and fidelity and either to accompany or follow him to glory. The governor, after trying in vain to alter her resolution, ordered her to be tortured, which was executed with great severity. After this, Timothy and Maura were crucified near each other, A.D. 304.

Blessed new year.